Being a single parent doesn’t mean you’ve given up on love and happiness. Yes, you’ve been hurt before, or perhaps you’ve lost someone in your past, but does that mean you have to live a celibate life forever? Do you really want to hang up your dating shoes and stick to your parent boots for good? 👢💔
Raising a child alone is no easy task. Your life changes drastically when you become a parent, with sacrifices made for the sake of your child. But the truth is, children grow up and eventually leave the nest to build their own lives. When that time comes, you don’t want to find yourself alone, wondering why you never gave love another chance. Here are some ways for single parents to get back into the dating game. First things first…
Get Out of the House! 🏡🚶♀️
Yes, you heard that right. My advice is simple: give yourself some time alone with the world. At least once a week, leave the kids with a trusted family member or babysitter and go out to have fun. Whether it’s a party, a café, a restaurant you like, or a social gathering, just go. You don’t need to go with someone else right away—the first person you need to date is yourself! 💃
Remember the things you enjoyed before becoming a parent. As a parent, we often set aside our own choices to cater to our kids’ needs. Take this time to rediscover your own likes and passions. I call this the “un-numbing experience.” By reconnecting with your personal joys, you’ll see what you still need in your life—whether it’s a hobby, a social life, or inspiration. Now that you’re back in touch with yourself, you’re ready for the next step…
Make Friends! 🤝
Don’t rush into a serious relationship. Jumping headfirst into romance could end in disaster. Instead, open yourself up to the idea of enjoying someone else’s company. Socialize, smile, and don’t be afraid to talk to people. As a single parent, you might feel judged or scrutinized, but remember, not everyone is like your ex. Don’t judge others by your past experiences. Give yourself a break and give new people a chance. It’s easier to “un-friend” someone than to go through another breakup, so go out, have fun, and…
Just Do It! 🌟
No, it’s not what you’re thinking! 😂 What I mean is, free yourself from the scrutiny of the public eye. As long as you know you’re not doing anything wrong and no one is getting hurt, go ahead and do what makes you happy. Live, laugh, dance, eat, and smile at those you meet. You may not find love immediately, but you’ll make the world around you a happier place, bringing simple joys into your life. Remember the saying, “Smile and the world smiles with you”? It’s not just a saying—it really works! 😊
Look in the mirror and smile. Don’t just smile with your face—let it come from within. Think of your favorite things (like Mary Poppins 🎵), and the smile will come naturally. The world around you deserves nothing less than…
The Truth 🗣️
Many single parents feel ashamed to admit their status on a first date. But here’s the truth: if someone isn’t willing to date you because you have a child, do you think they’ll change their mind later? Probably not.
It’s better to mention you’re a single parent casually when someone asks you out. If you see even the slightest twitch or gesture of rejection, don’t waste your time. Walk away. It’s better to date people who are open to your situation. You deserve someone who accepts you and everything that comes with your life. There are people who are mature and open-minded enough to date a single parent. After all, if things go well, you’ll eventually introduce them to your child. 👶
Talk to Your Child 🗨️👧
Now that you’re stepping back into the dating scene, remember that your child is still a part of this decision. Communicating your feelings with your child will help them understand your situation. Of course, adjust your language to suit their age and comprehension. A child’s approval can do wonders for your confidence. But always remember…
Don’t Fall Too Soon ❤️⏳
As you meet new people and go on dates, consider this your second chance at love. Reflect on past mistakes and try not to repeat them. Think of it as a sequel to your love life, with a new co-star. 😉 But kidding aside, single parents often feel lonely, which can lead to rushing into relationships. Take it slow—don’t fall too soon.
This is your chance to get it right, so take your time and consider all your options. Remember, great things come to those who wait. Who knows? This time around, you might just find your soulmate. 💞
