Love is a word that starts with “L” and ends with “E,” and in between are “O” and “V.” This might seem like a playful start, but it’s probably the most honest answer you can give when someone asks, “What is love?” 💬
Defining love in words is challenging because it’s one of those intangible things that touches every part of our lives. Love is an incredibly strong and complex emotion, used in so many different ways and at varying levels. It can mean deep kindness towards others, affection for someone special, or a passion for something you love to do. Love is also the most used—and sometimes, overused—word in our vocabulary. You might hear someone say, “I really love cooking! 🍳” or find yourself, after a fun night out, saying, “I love you guys! 🎉” to newfound friends.
Love wears many faces. There’s brotherly love, platonic love, spiritual love, and, of course, the most celebrated type—romantic love. Since you’re reading this, I bet you’re wondering…
How Do I Know If I’m In Love? 🤔
Here are some signs to watch for as you navigate the tricky waters of love:
1. I’m Happy If You’re Happy 😊
True love often involves putting someone else’s happiness above your own. If their joy brings you joy—even when it requires some sacrifice—you might be in love. Seeing them smile, even at the cost of your comfort, lights up your world. Sacrifice is a powerful indicator that love is in the air.
2. I Miss You 😢
When you’re apart from your special someone, does your heart ache a little? If you find yourself wishing they were there, or thinking about them all the time, that’s a sign you might be falling for them. It’s more than just infatuation—it’s a longing to be close.
3. I Still Like You, Flaws and All 🌸
No one’s perfect. In love, you’ll notice each other’s imperfections, but instead of running away, you embrace them. Love means accepting someone, flaws and all, and supporting each other through thick and thin. If you’d rather endure their quirks than be without them, you’re likely in love.
4. I See You Everywhere 👀
When you’re in love, your thoughts often circle back to that special person. You think about them constantly, and when you’re apart, it feels like the world is full of reminders of them. It’s not magic—it’s the power of love playing tricks on your mind.
5. I Care For You 🤗
Do you go out of your way to take care of your partner? Checking on them when they’re sick 🤒, making sure they’re eating well, or worrying about their habits—these are all signs of deep care. It might be a bit over the top, but when love is mutual, it’s sweet and endearing.
6. I Can’t Concentrate 🤯
Is your mind wandering to thoughts of your last kiss 💋 or sweet moments shared? If you find it hard to focus because your mind keeps drifting back to your partner, it’s a clear sign that love is on your mind.
7. You’re Mine, Only Mine 💑
That initial rush of love can make us a little possessive. If you find yourself getting jealous or irritated when someone flirts with your partner or when they speak highly of someone else, your love alarm is going off. 🚨
